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Blondes Have More Sex, Not Fun
A new study by
Adult Date Link
researchers gave proof to the statement that blondes have more sex, not fun. After numerous months of research the facts have emerged, blondes have over 350% more sex (this includes all forms of sexual contact) than any other hair color. In fact, blondes do not even have more sexual fun, reaching climax statistically the same as brunettes, redheads and even Goth or Punk dye jobs. Blondes do however fake orgasm eight times more often than any other color.
Pammy Andersin of Salt Lake City, Utah is a bottle blonde who insists blondes have more fun. "For sure, we like totally have more fun," says Andermon. "We get invited to all the parties and people just like throw booze at us. I went out last weekend to this guys party and for a three some, I got to totally drink for free. You tell me that isn't 'more fun'."
There is however some debate even amongst the blonde community. Blondie Spears of Miami, Florida writes "only a true blonde knows the real fun blondes have. The ones that dye their hair and act like blondes are just fake. There is a magnetic personal charm that surrounds natural blondes. It emits fun and radiates sex. When I am with yet another man, he wants to look down at my beautiful well-shaven pussy and see blonde, not roots, right?"
The report went on to break down "fun" according to what blondes refer to when they speak of "fun". Blondes are ten times more likely to consent to giving fellatio, seven times more likely to engage in doggy-style sex and five times more likely to do it in some kind of incredible fashion, such as in public or while in a love swing.
Even so, blondes across the nation are insisting they have more fun. "Sex isn't the only kind of fun," says Virginia
Johnson of Little Rock, Arkansas. "We engage in day to day fun all the time. Just last week my new boyfriend of two days took me to the batting cages. Yes, I said batting cages. Can you believe it? He is so dreamy. We could get married."
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Posted: Thursday 22nd September 2005, 11:26 AM
Interesting Sex Information
Here is some interesting information about the Sex habits of Americans. This was just released by the CDC (Center for Disease Control)
Sexual Behavior and Selected Health Measures: Men and Women 15-44 Years of Age, United States, 2002
Advance Data 362. Sexual Behavior and Selected Health Measures: Men and Women 15-44 Years of Age, United States, 2002. 56 pp. (PHS) 2003-1250.
Objective: This report is intended to provide reliable national estimates of some basic statistics on certain types of sexual behavior, sexual orientation, and sexual attraction for men and women 15-44 years of age, based on data collected in the United States in 2002. The data are relevant to public health concerns, including efforts to prevent HIV and other sexually transmitted infections, and to demographic and social concerns such as birth and pregnancy rates among teenagers. The data are from the 2002 National Survey of Family Growth (NSFG), and are based on 12,571 in-person interviews with men and women 15-44 years of age.
Highlights of findings
Teens:
At ages 15-19, about 12 percent of males and 10 percent of females had had heterosexual oral sex but not vaginal intercourse. (The male-female percentages are not significantly different.) This percent drops to 3 percent for both males and females at age 22-24, when most have already had vaginal intercourse. There are no trend data for females. Trend data for males suggest that no large changes in these behaviors have occurred since 1995.
Adults-heterosexual activity:
Among adult males 25-44 years of age, 97 percent have had sexual contact with an opposite-sex partner in their lives; 97 percent have had vaginal intercourse, 90 percent have had oral sex with a female, and 40 percent, anal sex with a female. Among women, the proportions who have had sexual contact with an opposite-sex partner were similar.
Males 30-44 years of age reported an average (median) of 6-8 female sexual partners in their lifetimes. Among women 30-44 years of age, the median number of male sexual partners in their lifetimes was about four. The findings appear to be similar to previous surveys conducted in the early 1990’s.
Same-sex activity:
Three percent of males 15-44 years of age have had oral or anal sex with another male in the last 12 months (1.8 million). Four percent of females had a sexual experience with another female in the last 12 months (tables A and B).
The proportion who had same-sex contact in their lifetimes was 6 percent for males and (using a different question) 11 percent for females (figure 5).
About 1 percent of men and 3 percent of women 15-44 years of age have had both male and female sexual partners in the last 12 months (table B).
Sexual orientation:
In response to a question that asked, “Do you think of yourself as heterosexual, homosexual, bisexual, or something else?” 90 percent of men 18-44 years of age responded that they think of themselves as heterosexual, 2.3 percent of men answered homosexual, 1.8 percent bisexual, 3.9 percent “something else,” and 1.8 percent did not answer the question (figure 8). Percents for women were similar. These findings are similar to data collected in 1992 by Laumann et al.
Sexual attraction:
Survey participants were asked if they were sexually attracted to males, to females, or to both. Among men 18-44 years of age, 92 percent said they were attracted “only to females,” and 3.9 percent, “mostly” to females. Among women, 86 percent said they were attracted only to males, and 10 percent, “mostly” to males. The percentage attracted “mostly to males” was 3 percent in a survey conducted in 1992, compared with 10 percent in the 2002 NSFG.
Selected health measures:
29 percent of men who have ever had male-male sexual contact were tested for HIV (outside of blood donation) in the last year, compared with 14 percent of men with no same-sex sexual contact.
17 percent of men who ever had male-male sexual contact had been treated for a non-HIV sexually transmitted infection (STI), compared with 7 percent of those who had never had male-male sexual contact.
Among men 15-44 years of age who had at least one sexual partner in the last 12 months, 39 percent used a condom at their most recent sex. Among never married males, this figure was 65 percent, compared with 24 percent of married males. Among males who had ever had sexual contact with another male, 91 percent used a condom at their last sex, compared with 36 percent of men who never had sex with another male.
U.S. DEPARTMENT OF HEALTH AND HUMAN SERVICES
Centers for Disease Control and Prevention
National Center for Health Statistics
Posted: Friday 16th September 2005, 12:05 PM
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Posted: Saturday 4th December 2004, 4:36 PM
Six Sure Tips to Score a Sweetie
By Margot Carmichael Lesster
You have all those couples around you, and you're depressed because you haven’t found a honey of your own. Try these six simple tips to improve your chances of finding the beau of your dreams:
1. Similar interests
Improve your chances of meeting a match by associating with people who share your interests. Enroll in a cooking class; go on a group hike or bike; join a book club. Then make it a point to talk to as many single women as possible.
2. A little help from your friends
Enlist some support to expand your dating pool. Tell your friends about your dream date and ask them if they know anyone. You can take it from there and make contact on your own, or maybe your friend will invite the two of you to coffee. If your friends see any hot profiles on Match.com, tell them to forward them to you so you can connect!
3. I dare you
Do you find yourself with steamy dreams about someone in your group of friends? If you’re feeling particularly daring, why not test the waters? After all, you already know you have fun together and have similar interests. If there’s a little sparky fuego happening, pursue it. Ask her out; make it date-like and see how it feels. If the vibe is good, explore further. If not, slide back into friendship mode.
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If you’re a creative person — singer, songwriter, poet or comedian — participate in an open mic night at a local coffeehouse or bar. You’ll could meet some talented gals — women who like other talented folk like you. And don’t worry about bombing; you’ll get points for giving it a shot and might even meet a lady who’s interested in helping you soothe your bruised ego.
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If you feel sexy and sweet, you’re more likely to attract someone similar. Go to a spa and get a day’s worth of pampering or head to the gym and work with a trainer to improve your shape. You even could meet Ms. Right while you’re concentrating on your own well-being! Emotional health is just as important; if issues are preventing you from finding romance, consider seeing a therapist to get into good mental shape for a relationship. Seriously.
Posted: Monday 15th November 2004, 3:33 PM
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SexyAds Member of the Day
Here is something new from
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What are the qualities you look for in a potential husband or wife?
Have you ever dated someone you were crazy about, yet wished you could change one little thing about him or her? Have you reveled in the fact that you and your sweetie had almost everything in common, yet you still broke up? Just what is it that we really need to look for in order to promote a successful future with someone?
Perhaps the best way to determine whether he or she is wedding-worthy is to ask yourself a few questions. There are five basic elements that you need to really look at before any relationship can progress towards something truly successful. These elements are as follows: emotional, sexual, intellectual, financial, and spiritual.
Emotional:
Take the emotional aspect of a person's makeup. This area includes a person's psychological characteristics, emotional styles and expressions. Perspective on the world, level of self-esteem, confidence, intimacy, ability to share, commit. Weaknesses, strengths, respect of self and others, vanity, attitude. The list goes on...
Sexual:
Sexuality means different things to different people. For some, it means the physical act itself, perhaps something wild, while for others, romance and expression play an important part. A few traits to keep in mind when looking for a partner might be level of interest, romance, attraction, love, variations, response, monogamy, communication, risk taking, playfullness, awareness of STDs, and physical appearance.
Intellectual:
How a person thinks about the world he or she inhabits, and how they interact day to day. Some people are casual and some thrive on being type A personalities. A person's intellectual style influences would include expression of ideas, level of education, sense of humor, goals, skills, hobbies, mistakes, conversation and learning styles, interest and quickness of thought.
Financial:
Money affects everyone. How one treats it tells much about him or her, and can make the difference between a comfortable life and a life of living Hell, so it's important to be compatible in this area. Pay attention to spending style, lifestyle, goals, retirement, savings and ideas about money and debt in general.
Spiritual:
Spiritually doesn't necessarily mean a person's religious orientation, rather a basic belief system about life in general. A sense of self, a reason for living. It includes beliefs about ethics, the importance of religion, purpose of life, optimism, acceptance of others, integrity, honesty, responsibility and social values.
Using the Core Elements to Make a Match Whenever you are interested in someone, it's important to know her views on each of the five components. The more areas of comparability, the stronger the foundation of the relationship will be. People can have differences, but it adds strain to a relationship. Observe and communicate, and hopefully, you will be able to catch differences early on, to avoid pain later.
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Here is another interesting book about online dating. Almost everyone that reviewed it at Amazon.com gave it 5 Stars, so it must be pretty good. If you're interested, just click the link below.
Meet Me...Don't Delete Me! is a very unique book on Internet dating. It not only gives great advice about dating online, but also includes funny, zany stories and hilarious photos. The author uses her own personal experiences to let you know you're not out there alone! Internet dating is a fun, exciting way of meeting tons of people. This book reminds us that even the worst date can be the funniest story at any get together. Find out:
>> How to post the right photo.
>> How long to correspond before meeting.
>> When and where to meet.
>> What to say and what NOT to say.
>> How to screen for the best and safest results.
>>How to laugh at the author's mistakes, all made so YOU don't have to.
AND lots more!
So put down the TV remote and the Twinkie and find out how to jump start your love life.
About the Author
BEV BACON has personally experience online dating herself. She has been advising people on dating strategies for years. She has a BS in Psychology. Bev currently lives in Los Angeles, CA.
Real or make-believe?.......that is the question. Can we find a way to determine if the person we are falling for online is REAL??
This is one question that comes to mind a lot in online connections, be it emails or instant messages, and is peculiar to ONLY online communications. This cannot occur in any other venue except maybe writing letters back and forth to someone you have never met, such as pen pals, women who write to incarcerated men, etc.
Since we cannot see the person's reactions to what we say, nor can we be distracted by a million other forms of sensory input that happen in person-to-person interaction, ONLINE communication becomes something nebulous falling somewhere between REAL and FANTASY in our mind.
Have you heard about Pornstar Jenna Jameson's new book,
How to Make Love Like a Porn Star: A Cautionary Tale? For a book written by a porn star, it surprised some people that it went to the top of the New York Times bestsellers list. It sounds like an interesting read. Here is a review for those that might be interesting in reading it.
Book Description
When the stewardess brought me off the plane in a wheelchair, I lowered my head. I was too scared to even look at my father. I didn't want to see the disappointment and horror on his face. All that hate I had accumulated for him over the years, all the resentment against him for not understanding what I was going through, just released with the tears. "So, where are your parents?" the stewardess asked me after a few minutes. "I can't wait here with you much longer." I looked up and wiped my eyes. My father was standing ten feet away. He didn't even recognize me.
In the underbelly of Las Vegas, a cesspool of warring biker gangs and seedy strip clubs transformed the gawky, brace-faced Jenna Massoli into the bombshell Jenna Jameson. Today, Jenna Jameson is the biggest star in the history of adult movies, consistently ranked as one of the most beautiful women alive. But behind the glamour and the meteoric rise to fame was a path paved with tragedy and heartbreak. As a teenager drawn into a chaotic world ruled by rape, abuse, and murder, Jenna plunged into a downward spiral of addiction, even as she became one of the most photographed women in adult magazines.
Determined to overcome this past, Jenna rebounded in the adult-film business, where she encountered sadistic directors, experienced lovers of both sexes, amorous celebrities (from Howard Stern to Marilyn Manson to Tommy Lee), bitter rival starlets, and finally, glory, as she went on to become the biggest porn star the world has ever seen. But her struggle for happiness did not end when the accolades began. For years she wrestled with her resentment at her estranged father, the loneliness of growing up from the age of two without a mother, and her enduring childhood desire to find a man who could give her the security and love she never had.
Her unforgettable memoir is many things at once: a shocking sexual history, an insider's guide to the secret workings of the billion-dollar adult-film industry, and a gripping thriller that probes deep into Jenna's dark past. An unparalleled exploration of sexual freedom,
How to Make Love Like a Porn Star ventures far beyond the flesh, into the heart-shredding tragedies and adrenaline-pumping triumphs of a woman who has already lived a hundred lifetimes. Always witty and humorous even as she faces the demons of her past, Jenna offers hilarious anecdotes about one of the most controversial businesses in history, and shares outrageous advice, including her ten commandments of dating and sex, how to become a "suitcase pimp," and how to make it in the business as a female (or a male).
Add to this never-before-seen photographs from Jenna's private collection and others taken exclusively for this book, and the result is certain to be one of the most talked-about books of the year.
About the Author: Jenna Jameson is CEO of ClubJenna, Inc., a fast growing Internet management, production, and licensing company. She has a production output deal with adult film powerhouse Vivid Entertainment Group. Jenna appeared in Howard Stern's PrivateParts and Samhain, and has a role in an upcoming Comedy Central feature film. She has appeared on television and in more than 1,000 mainstream magazine articles. Jenna lives in Scottsdale, AZ.
Match.com is the largest of the mainstream general interest dating sites, with approximately 9 million members. Its broad appeal has much to do with the number of user-friendly special features. If you are new to on-line dating you will find the sign up procedures and the basic profile submission to be both quick and easy, taking only about a minute to complete. Since this is a mainstream dating site, profiles are kept free of suggestive or profane language. Match.com offers free limited access usage, which will give potential members a variety of, but not all, functions for an unlimited period of time. As an example, you may search the database but you cannot make the initial contact with other members. You must wait for them to read your free ad, and hope that they contact you first. After seeing all the interesting member photos, and profiles that you would like to contact, you will quickly discover that full membership is the way to go.
When you first enter Match.com, you will find the FAQ (frequently asked questions) very helpful. Be sure to take time to read some of the informative and interesting advice, information, and articles that you'll find in the online singles magazine, “MatchScene”. Also take a few minutes to fill out the “Personal Attraction Test”. You will be surprised by the feedback and contacts you will receive based on this little form.
With their large membership database, it makes finding romance close to home very easy. Who wants to find a great match on the other side of the world? With Match.com’s introduction of “Two-Way Matching” and their “Venus” programs, your search can be easily narrowed down to the most compatible matches. The “Keyword” search feature will allow you to locate that perfect prospect that enjoys both traveling, skiing, golf, and more "indoor" type sports. And please, don't be reluctant to write all about yourself. You will quickly discover that you are what you write in your profile. If you're not honest and complete, how will your perfect match find you?
Still reluctant to expose yourself to the whole world? Remember, with Match.com's excellent reputation to protect, Match.com has made every effort necessary to assure your privacy. Their various forms of communication such as IM/Chat (instant messenger), email, telephone contact, video, audio, etc. all have “anonymizer” functions built-in in order to provide you with a safe and
secure environment.
We highly recommend Match.com especially if you are new to the online dating world. But it's not just for newbies. Match.com has done everything right. Most members will find everything they could want in an online dating service, and will not need to join other sites to "see what else is out there".
The membership fees are in line with other similar services, and the overall member satisfaction lever is rated as Excellent. Match.com will not disappoint. To visit the site for more information, please click HERE
There is a new eBook out by Susie and Otto Collins. After reading this ebook, your relationship will never be the same again...
Whatever you want--whether it's love, friendship, more passion, a partner on the Spiritual Path, a connected Relationship or a companion of the heart this book will help you identify how you can have it.
With the information in the E-Book, "Creating Relationship Magic", You'll discover how to identify and eliminate the biggest challenges and issues we all face in our relationships and start creating the relationship you've always wanted in your life.
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